Yesterday was a difficult day for our school. The day before a body was found on our softball fields. That night we learned it was one of our own students.
I had several students visibly shaken up by the incident.
One girl in my 6th period class in particular. I knew she knew the victim. She came to class with sadness in her face. I didn't call on her. I didn't make her participate. I don't even think I said a word to her. I looked at her with an expression on my face that said, "I'm sorry for your loss." And when I walked through the classroom checking the others students' papers for correct answers I gently touched the back of her shoulder as if to say, "I'm sorry for your loss." We didn't speak.
She e-mailed me last night and said:
I wanted to thank you for being so nice , and caring and supportive to me today!!! i needed that!! she was my friend.. i still cant get over it and wont for a while i think ... thank you
I didn't even know I did anything. I guess it is just nice to realize that being supportive helped her through the day.
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That's so terribly sad. There's no way to get over the tragic loss of a friend. It changes you forever. All you can do is support each other through it. It's nice that you are sensitive to that.
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